Root Wrap~ Gigantic redwoods grow in families and their shallow roots intertwine or “root wrap.” When severe storms blow in from the Pacific—the huge trees sway and bend—but they don’t break. Humans also root wrap during the storms of life. Helpful Hints These tips and more can be found in Hope for Families of Children with Cancer and in Hope for Families of Children with Congenital Heart Defects.   (A six-year-old’s perspective--notice the super-heroes capes.)   Give hospital hospital-ity. Remember that members of the medical staff are human first and professionals second. Their days are packed with sick children and exhausted parents.    Give them a terrific gift--a smile. They may not have seen one in a while.

* * * * * Be especially careful in your home away from home—your vehicle. Hours spent on the road driving to and from the hospital, clinic, and home can be hazardous when you’re weary.    Pay special attention to rain-slicked or snow-covered streets. And watch speed limits. (A 35 MPH speed limit doesn’t change to 65 MPH in the middle of the night.)  Don’t’ push the “E.” Fill up when you get below the half mark. You may need more than half a tank of gas for that unexpected trip to the hospital—in the middle of the night.  * * * * *

Siblings feel invisible. Remind friends and family to ask the sibling about what is happening in their life—not just their brother/sister with cancer.   Spend time with the sibling. Ask him what he would like to do with you. It may be as simple as cuddling on the sofa with hot chocolate.   Have a “family time” when you discuss plans and feelings. Siblings need to share in decision-making—on their age level. This gives some control over an uncontrollable situation.

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